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It is well known that the most busy time for divorce lawyers is January. This is because already strained personal and family relationships can come under particular pressure over the Christmas and New Year period.
Having seen many January divorces of the years, we have come to understand some of the most common reasons why the festive season places so much strain on us and how you can try to avoid them:
Discuss how and where you want to celebrate
It is always difficult to decide whether to spend Christmas at home or with which side of the family. Sit down in advance and discuss the options and the practicalities. When you agree to one suggestion, be sure to say that you will go with the other suggestion next year.
Budget
Agree a family budget in advance and stick to it. Don’t allow yourself to spend more than you can afford.
Set a cleaning rota
Include your partner, the children (and the in-laws if they’re coming over!) Give everyone a role and make sure you don’t take on too much and start to feel resentful.
Think before you drink
Excessive drinking at Christmas can heighten emotions and lead to arguments and saying something you may later regret.
Make time for each other
Christmas is a busy time but it also a holiday. Leave yourself time to relax and fit in a ‘date night’ before the children go back to school!
Our articles are intended for general information purposes only and are not a substitute for professional advice tailored to your specific circumstances. We are always very happy to discuss any plans, issues or concerns you may have and to clarify how we might be able to help. We cannot accept responsibility for any loss as a result of acts or omissions taken in respect of this article.
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